Wisdom for Mediators

Have you seen ancient wisdom for modern mediators?

A Mediator's Prayer

I love this Mediator's Prayer shared on Kluwer Mediation's blog. An oldie but a goodie:

Disputants, make me the instrument of your negotiation,
Where there is conflict, let me mediate;
Where there is difference, mediate;
Where there is contradiction, mediate;
Where there is discord, mediate;
Where there is litigation, mediate;

As a mediator, I assist to reframe rather than to repeat,
To communicate rather than to adjudicate,
To facilitate rather than to evaluate,
To summarize rather than to advise,
To generate options rather than to provide solutions,
To reality-test rather than to protest.

It is in letting go that we move on;
It is in wearing the shoes of your foe that we empathize;
It is in accommodating our adversary that we satisfy our own claims;
It is in striving for a settlement that we find peace.

Fear of Conflict?

How to get over your fear of conflict! Great tips by Amy Jen Su.

Conflict Resolution Importance

Yes, conflict resolution is important! Steve Keating provides an insightful blog entry and a few key tips on what to consider before attempting to resolve a conflict. Read more.

Hot or Cold?

Is it hot or cold? This is the question to ask according to Gerzon before you deal with a conflict in the workplace. Read more.

Think on Your Feet

The Best Negotiators Plan to Think of Their Feet… Read more.

Appealing from Arbitrations

Good summary of three important decisions that came out recently regarding appealing from arbitrations.